Penis Too Big or Vagina Too Small?
Q. The problem is that my penis circumference seems too great for me to actually enter my girlfriend. It’s a struggle to get it into her vagina and it tends to be spat out again fairly quickly, after immense discomfort. We've tried using lubrication and I haven’t had this problem with my one previous sexual partner, Please help, this is very frustrating.
A. Given that you haven’t had this issue before, let’s ignore the size of your penis and focus on what’s going on in her vagina. There are a number of vaginal disorders that can lead to pain before, during and after intercourse; they range in intensity and can cause symptoms that feel similar to tightness, cramps and spasms. Keep in mind that pain can also indicate allergies, infections or muscular degeneration.
The appropriate term for the condition of painful sexual intercourse is dyspareunia and there are many physical as well as psychological causes. The correct form of action is to consult a doctor for a complete exam and medical history.
In the meantime, it’s important to continue fulfilling each others’ erotic needs. While your girlfriend waits for a diagnosis, here are a few things to try. Together you can engage in Sensual Massage, mutual Masturbation and Oral Sex. If you both want to continue having sex, use Sexual Positions that limit the depth of penetration. It may also be of use to engage in physically relaxing activities beforehand such as intimate massage or taking baths. Also, see the related question Tilted Womb.
i tnink there is no such
i tnink there is no such thing as too big,keep trying dont give up
When i was with other guys,
When i was with other guys, I didn't hurt at all. But with my boyfriend now, he is rather large. And it STILL hurts. But it doesn't hurt for long anymore. But he had problems entering the first few times as well. He said it was because I was really tight. I went to the doctor's. And he said the exact same thing. So i quit worrying. But it is true that we have to have proper lubrication and to be relaxed. It really helps.
A lot of times you have to
A lot of times you have to make sure the girl is really wet and relaxed... Sometimes girls get nervous and tense up when they see a big dick and once they are tense then you can just forget it... but encourage her to relax and go slow so that she is ready... make sure your penis/condom is lubricated because even if she is wet the first 3 inches can soak all that up leaving friction for the rest of your dick!.... so make sure there is lots of lubrication and go slow and make sure she is relaxed!